Summary and updates In this issue of the Stoic Street Smarts Chronicle, I discuss the nature of luck, how to get more of the good kind, and most often overlooked, how to get less of the bad kind. I've also opened up my Stoic Book Notes Club. It's a hybrid of a book club and book summaries. In the Stoic Book Notes Club, I've archived the complete notes for the books I've read and will continually update the notes I take on the current read (Power vs Force by David R. Hawkins). The books I'm reading all fit around the theme of the content: managing risk, developing relationships, and facing reality. While I'm not opposed to reading the newest best sellers and popular favorites, you're unlikely to see notes for those types of books there. It doesn't matter to me if it doesn't serve my interests. I'll occasionally send free snippets of the notes and discussions in the group. To make sure you aren't bombarded with emails, I'll only send them to people who are signed up or have shown interest in signing up by clicking here. Today's sponsor Shortform advertises itself as a book summary site, and that is an awesome feature. But while poking around, I discovered they also publish news article breakdowns. One of my pet peeves is modern media. In particular, the polarizing takes that manipulate your feelings without giving you all the facts necessary to understand what you're reading. There are a variety of sites out there to help you get unbiased news, but Shortform comes up big in this way. Shortform breaks down news stories with commentary and additional links if you want further information. They included relevant context for all the news covered, so you walk away with the total picture. It's news and research, reported with bias and supporting information, the way news should be delivered. Check out Shortform below to get a free trial and a 20% discount.
Getting rid of bad luck for a better life Luck plays a significant role in the life of any successful person. Hard work is essential, but a little good fortune goes a long way in being successful. Everyone's gotten a lucky break or two, but people don’t like to admit this for two big reasons:
Dealing with the first misunderstanding is a natural result of dealing with the second. Before I define luck, let me warn you: it will probably differ from whatever’s in Webster’s dictionary. If you’re satisfied with your level of luck, read theirs instead.
Ed Latimore’s Definition Of Luck: Let “n” be an intended or predicted outcome. Let k be any events that occur because of “n.” The unintended n+k order of effects of an action is luck. We aim to increase the amount of good luck and decrease the bad we experience. To accomplish this task, we must first understand the difference between the two. You benefit from good luck and suffer because of bad. This statement might seem obvious, but notice how it compares to my earlier definition of luck. When speaking of luck, without a modifying adjective, it's an impersonal observation of how the world works. Things happen and as a result of those intended things, other unintended things happen, the sum of which is luck. When we start talking about “good” and “bad” luck, it becomes a personal experience. Because of the personal nature of good/luck, three factors about every person determine whether an unintended event is a case of good or bad luck.
This idea gives a glimpse into what it takes to have more good luck in our lives, but first, let's talk about decreasing bad luck. We must discuss how to stop being unlucky because filling a bucket is easier once you patch up the leaks. In other words, it doesn't matter how fortunate you are if misfortune wipes it out. Social media round-up
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